What do you think about when you
hear that question? There are basic
considerations like opening doors for others and letting people go first in
line. There are also daily pleasantries
like saying “how are you” and “thank you”.
In my mind there is one true measure of how we treat people that ranks
above all others; the way we speak to someone.
What we say, and often more importantly, how we say it, is the key to
how we treat people. Our words are
powerful. Our tone can be harmful. Our decision to talk or listen sends a
message.
Never underestimate the power of
the spoken work. Unfortunately, that
spoken word is easy to use in anger and retaliation. It is the first thing we
use without thinking when responding to someone. It can be made hurtful by the words we choose
and the tone with which they are said. However,
the spoken word can also be used to lift someone up, to show true love and
support, to encourage and to teach. It
can communicate our deepest feelings and share our most private thoughts. The power is ours. We make the choice about exactly how to use
the power of a spoken word. How we talk
to people is the true barometer of how we treat them.
So, when you open your mouth today
think about how you really treat others?
