“Don’t offer a lecture to a
person that needs a hug!”
- Anonymous
We humans can be a bit judgy.
Many of us are set in our ways and view the world from only our perspective. We
think we have all the answers. The problem is when we feel the need to press
our answers onto others. These lectures might be about how others should live
their life, who they should date, how to parent, or what they need to tell
their boss. Sure, there is a place for these discussions with our friends. Note
the use of the word discussion, not lecture. But, oftentimes people just need a
sympathetic ear. They need to be listened to, not lectured to. Think about the
difference. Big opportunity here for both parents and employers.
Sometimes, friends, employees
and kids may actually want to know our thoughts. Other times they may even need
to hear our thoughts. But there are also times when we need to keep our mouth
shut. Never pass up the opportunity to give someone a hug. It might be all they
need.
