As humans one of the greatest gifts we can give is our undivided
attention. While that sounds simple, consider what it really means. With
deadlines, meetings, email, texts, social media, and cell phones, how often do
you really give someone your undivided attention? It is incredibly easy for our
thoughts to drift to something we consider more urgent. There really should be
nothing more urgent than what we are being told by our friends, peers and
subordinates.
Giving someone our attention allows them to speak and truly be
heard. It allows them to feel positive about our relationship with them. It
allows you to focus on what you are being told and learn something from their
perspective. It is a foundational piece of the relationship between leader and
follower. Loyal associates deserve your undivided attention. It is so vital in
personal relationships. This principle is even more true at home with spouses
and children!
Try it out, you might learn something you and you will be
appreciated!
