As humans, one of the greatest gifts we can give
others is our undivided attention. There
is little as meaningful as totally focusing on another person and what they are
saying or feeling. Maybe that sounds
simple, but consider what it really means.
With deadlines, meetings, email, texts and cell phones, how often do you
really give someone your undivided attention?
It is incredibly easy for our thoughts to drift
to something we consider more urgent. The
phone in our pocket or purse is extremely tempting. Our next meeting or appointment may seem much
more important. Giving someone our
attention allows them to speak and truly be heard. It allows them to feel positive about their
relationship with us. It allows you to
focus on what you are being told and learn something from their
perspective. Focusing our attention is a
foundational piece of personal relationships.
This applies to all aspects of our lives. It is especially true in our leadership roles
and is even truer at home with spouses and children! Try it, you might learn something, and you
will be appreciated!
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