Undivided Attention

As leaders, mentors and even friends, one of the greatest gifts we can give others is our undivided attention.  While that may sound simple, consider what it really means.  With deadlines, meetings, email, texts and cell phones, how often do you really give someone your undivided attention?  It is incredibly easy for our thoughts to drift to something we consider more urgent.  Glancing at a buzzing phone or checking our email is oh so tempting.  But, there is really nothing more urgent than what we are being told by our peers, subordinates and friends.  Giving someone your attention allows them to speak and truly be heard.  It allows them to feel positive about their relationship with you.  It allows you to focus on what you are being told and learn something from their perspective.  It is a foundational piece of the human relationship.  It is even more important between a leader and follower.  Loyal associates deserve your undivided attention.  This principle is even truer at home with spouses and children!  Try it, you might learn something, and you will be appreciated!