There are leaders and there are those who lead. Leaders generally have titles, positions of authority or a formal role of leadership, but influence is not guaranteed simple due to a title or position. Those who lead are different, they inspire us. They are influencers. Those who lead strike a unique cord with people that encourages followers. We follow them because we want to, not because we have to. We follow them because of how they make us feel about where we are going and what we are accomplishing. Those who lead motivate and encourage us. Certainly, leaders with titles and positions can be those who lead, but it is not because of the title. What kind of a leader are you?
I was getting ready for work one day last week and found myself gazing at an “ABC” list of life advice in our bedroom. It is a list of great life suggestions we received from some wonderful friends. The “D” jumped out at me, since I had done that the weekend before. The “G” had also caught my eye, as I have clearly done that! In glancing at the rest of the list, there are several that I need to be more conscious of doing. What about you? They don’t all apply to everyone, but most of them do. Life is short, here are 24 things to do while you can…
Avoid Collagen, Bloom Late, Celebrate, Dance At Weddings, Eat More Chocolate, Fall In Love Again, Go Grey, Hold Hands, Inspire, Jettison Grudges, Kiss Like You Mean It, Laugh, Mend Fences, Nurture Friendships, Open Doors, Perspire With Aplomb, Quit Whining, Rekindle Romance, Spoil Babies, Teach Someone To Read, Upset Convention, Volunteer, Wear Red, eXpect Joy, Yield Gracefully, Zing
“Thinking outside of the box” is an overused phrase, but what does it really mean? Did you know that sticker burrs (yes like you find in a field of weeds) were the inspiration for the fastener we now know as Velcro? Now that is outside of the box thinking! It makes sense, but I sure would not have thought of it. When we look at the familiar with fresh eyes we really open our minds to creativity. I am not the most creative guy around, but I try and look at business problems with an open mind. It is very easy to get caught in a rut, to live with blinders on. We tend to only see things within the parameters we are accustomed. But wild ideas are often really very creative solutions. “Thinking outside the box” might be overused, but it is a necessary way of thinking. It does not come naturally. We have to consciously force ourselves to see with fresh eyes and think outside of the box.
How will you see things this week?
Perspective can be powerful thing. A little dose can make one's own problems or situation seem quite insignificant. Perspective also serves as a reminder of just how little we really understand, and how much less we really control here on earth. It can make a person see their own challenges in a totally different light. Make no mistake, what we do in our daily jobs is important and so are our family responsibilities, but the next time you become frustrated by the challenges of your job, your boss your co-workers, or family and friends, consider a little perspective. How does that frustration really rank in the big scheme of things? Enjoy the quote below.
“There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” – William Shakespeare
I am a week late in posting this MMM this year…
Who am I?
I lost my dad way too early,
Who am I to doubt it was part of God’s plan?
His mother lived to age 98, why couldn’t he?
Who am I to question God’s timing?
He loved my mom and all of us so dearly,
Who am I to ask God why we don’t have him anymore?
He was married for 50 years, had nine grandchildren and a great grandchild,
Who am I to not thank God for the time we did have?
He had wood to carve, golf to play and trips to take,
Who am I to ask God why not?
He was kind, loved and respected,
Who am I to ask God why him?
For his disease there were no more options,
Who am I to ask God why no cure?
There were things I had not done or said,
Who am I to ask God for more time with him?
I never heard a bad word spoken towards him,
Who am I to ask God why not someone else?
He deserved so much more,
Who am I to question that God knows what he truly deserved?
I lost my dad far too soon,
Who am I to question God’s plan?
Barry D. Blanton
In loving memory of Don Blanton
January 6, 1935 – June 23, 2007